A conference for women given in Viņa del Mar in 1946
The fashionable illness of our times is neurosis. One of the professions
with plenty of work is psychiatry… Many of those who believe themselves
to be suffering from neurosis are suffering rather from the emptiness of
their lives. They have nothing to do, nothing to take them out of
themselves. They live concentrated on their interior life, always
looking at themselves in the mirror of their thoughts to see how they
are: doing well or badly; to see if others esteem them or not; if they
looked at them, why did they do so, if not why have they stopped…
Castles in the air… built on what others think of them… Neurosis is at
the door; life has been colored with sadness forever. Egoism is at the
root of the evil! How can this neurosis be cured? Before you go off to a
psychiatrist I would advise a person to consult a prudent spiritual
director. It is possible that the root of this problem may be a hidden
complex buried within since your early years but it is more probable
that it is simply an emptiness of life, life without meaning; a soul
waiting to be filled, to have its very existence given meaning.
To simply vegetate is so sad! To see the years pass with nothing done!
No one to look at you with grateful eyes… nowhere to turn, to look for
love.
In this area, Christianity, as in everything else, is not only a law of
holiness but also one of spiritual and mental health. For some the
Christian moral code is enormously complicated, long, detailed and
rather narrow… one easy to violate without even noticing. It is a
collection of ordinarily negative laws: don’t do this or that… How can I
fill up my life with negations?
Happily, the truth is very different. Christianity is not a collection
of prohibitions but a great affirmation… and not many either, one: Love.
“God is love” (1Jn 4,8) and the moral of those who have been created in
the image and likeness of God, is the moral of Love. Which is the
greatest commandment of the Law? Love… and the second is like to the
first: love your neighbor as yourself (cf. Mt 22, 37-39). For this
reason, Bossuet with his great genius could say: “Let us be Christians,
that is to say, let us love our brothers.”
The best way to fill our lives: fill them with love and in doing so we
are simply fulfilling the precept of the Master. Shortly before leaving
this world and wanting to sum up his teaching in a fundamental precept,
he left us these words: “I give you a new commandment: that you love one
another… In this all will know that you are my disciples: if you have
love one for another”… (cf. Jn 13, 34-35). In this, and only in this the
world will know you are my disciples!
The first Christians: How can a man be saved? Loving him, suffering with
him, identifying with him, in pain, in his own suffering. Not with
discourses that cost nothing to deliver, nor sermons that do not change
our lives, but with a clear expression of love! The Church does not need
activists but rather witnesses.
This is why I believe that in these difficult times in which we live,
God in His immense mercy is going to raise up new spirits. I would not
be surprised to see a new congregation dressed in overalls with a vow to
work in factories and live in slum areas in order to save the world as
we have seen the little Sisters of the Assumption and those of the Holy
Cross giving themselves entirely for the redemption of the suffering. I
have just finished reading a marvelous work of a priest worker who had
himself deported in order to help save his expatriate brothers, a
laborer like themselves…
Among all men there are those whom Christ recommends to us in a special
way, his poor. Who is my neighbor? a doctor of the Law asked Jesus, who
responded: A poor man went down on the road from Jericho… half dead… Go
and do the same (cf. Lk 15, 29-37). And the doing or not doing of these
works of charity for our neighbor is so important in the eyes of God
that it will be the basis of our judgment: I was hungry… I was thirsty…
I was in prison…you did not give… (cf. Mt 25, 31-46). Our neighbor, the
poor in particular, is Christ in person. Whatever you do to the least of
my brothers that you do unto me. The poor newspaper boys, the shoeshine
boy, the tubercular woman, all are Christ. The drunk… don’t be
scandalized, he is Christ! To insult him, to despise him, to make fun of
him, is to despise Christ. What you do to the least of my brothers that
you do to me! This is the reason for the name Hogar de Cristo, the Home
of Christ.
There is a great deal of talk these days about the Christian social
order and with good reason. This order takes for granted legislation
based on the common good, in social justice but it is an order only
possible if Christians are filled with a desire to love that is
translated into giving. Fewer words and more works. The modern world is
anti-intellectual: it believes in what it sees, in concrete deeds.
When the poor see, and feel their pain and look to us Christians; what
have they the right to ask of us? Of us who believe that Christ lives in
each poor man? Will they accept our faith if they see us keeping all the
comforts, hating communism because of what it threatens to take from us
rather than for its atheism? What should our attitude be? A social sense!
Serve, give, love. Fill your life with these others.